As you observe, pay attention to the process, the content, and the relationship. Ask yourself:
- Does my child seem to like and look forward to working with this therapist?
- Does this therapist seem to like and look forward to working with my child?
- Is my child's therapy specific to his developmental level, or is it identical to therapy provided to others in his group/class?
- Are the reinforcers (rewards) offered to my child truly appropriate? That is, are they rewards that he really prizes, or just the usual candy and crackers?
- In addition to physical rewards, is the therapist rewarding my child with real emotional engagement (smiles, praise, high fives)?
- If she does, does my child respond?
- Is my child's therapy conducted entirely at a table, or does the therapist also work with my child in natural settings?

