Can Autistic Teens Gain New Skills? You Bet!
Saturday March 17, 2007
In an inspiring article in the Washington Post, Susan Senator reminds us that early intervention isn't everything. Here's a wonderful description of a breakthrough moment for her son Nat, aged 14:
A few months ago, ...everything changed for us. Nat asked me a question for the first time. It was pretty mundane as big questions of life go: "Where are your [my] pajamas?" he asked, standing in the kitchen in his underwear. I was cleaning up after dinner, and, my mind on dirty dishes, I began to answer, "Oh, they're under your pillow -- "Parents of children with autism live for moments like these - and it's so important to know that they happen all the time. Not just in infancy, or before the age of 5. But all throughout life, and sometimes when we least expect them!I stopped. "Nat! You asked a question!" I went running upstairs to my husband, to tell him the amazing news, with Nat behind me, patiently waiting for his pajamas.
Comments
I couldn’t agree more! Our 14 year old son with autism/mr is gaining more skills now than when he was 5! The idea that children with autism will only hit certain skills within certain timeframes has always been ridiculous. Never ever give up trying or give up on your child!!!
Your sharing is extremely heartening! I, too, have been somewhat discouraged about focusing on early intervention for optimal results. I remain hopeful for breakthroughs. My 15 yr old son shot and made (for first time) numerous baskets w/basketball w/o assistance in school gym. To us, that’s a huge accomplishment.
My 16 year old son is now starting again with Verbal Behavioral Therapy. Last year he had this therapy but we could not afford it and he learned a lot with it. I have never given up on him, my goal is not a cure thru this therapy but more communication from him. Don’t give up because your child is not 5 and not “recovered”, I hate that word.
Lauren